The wife of one's father by a later marriage is simply the Step Mum(freedictionary). Most time people perceive them as gold diggers, cruel, wicked but some are also Nice, Good and Loving. Some view them as an opportunist especially when the husband is rich but the truth is its non of your business.
To the children with Step mum, i'm sorry to put it this way but its not in your place to fight your step mum. Don't take over your mother's battle, the problem is of your dad and mum,let them settle and figure it out between themselves.
Stand by your mum and console her when she's down, of course its not easy to share one's husband especially when you live together, be by her, pray for and with her, encourage her and make her happy.
If you must fight your step mum be ready to fight your dad too. Remember it takes two to tangle, your father and her came together mutually. Don't create enmity for yourself where there's none.
Don't see them as a threat, after all you will go your way in the future and leave them in the house.
They should not determine your peace in your fathers house, do things that makes you happy. Don't show them how pained you are because you will only let them make you more pained, when you are not okay with their actions.constructively tell them and you don't have to be arrogant.
Not all of them are wicked, not all of them are witch, not all of them are problematic. You live and let them live, give them their own space. It's your fathers house and also their Husband's house
Its never too late to make peace with your step mum,give them a benefit of doubt still.just imagine the pains and troubles you've made and think of the difference it had made, absolutely none or few.
I'm not saying there are no wicked step mom but you can play your own part well, Stay calm and determine your own peace in your own father's house.
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