I was about crossing the express but the cars refused to stop but I could also rushed in between them and make a pass, but I noticed about 100meters behind there was no vehicle and I could just take my time to cross the road instead of turning to Usain Bolt which I gladly crossed catwalking.
Many at times we just keep running, we want to keep moving to the point of losing focus. Its not a bad idea to move but the pace at which we move matters. Don’t run when you are still learning to walk because you will fall and you are likely to get hurt.
A lot of businesses, Marriage, Education, Lives are spoilt because we keep running. Some people start business because they have an idea of what their boss does but many at times doesn’t even know half then the challenge will come without knowing how to solve it. Is it even your passion? Well its bringing in money so I can do it is what many will say.
Many get married because they are the only spinster/bachelor left in the committee of friend, without carefully and prayerfully study the spouse. Many wants the big wedding on Bellanaija and they want to get featured too. Is this guy/lady good for me should be the question, can I actually cope with him? But many at times we believe we can cope which may not even be possible. Because you are the last doesn’t mean you won’t get there.
Education: I’ve seen parents that wants double promotion for their kids because their friend’s children are in upper class, please calm down. Can your child perform better, how is he coping in that present class he is, how can you make him do better should be your interest and not competing with other children. Some pick a course because others/ friends does and many parents also command the future of the children, you must go Law, Medicine, Accountancy etc please let this children decide for themselves.
Self study, self evaluation should be done in running the race of life. Carefully study yourself, discover who you are, your passions and interest and I believe this can help you keep focus. You don’t need to pull people down on your way to the top as the sky is big enough for all to fly.
Many run the race with no idea of the destination, always remember everything has been predestined. Don’t move faster than your destiny hence you will have to wait in future. There’s no competition in the race of live, we all have different destination and different exams. Do yours and let others do theirs.
Remember life is not a race but a journey, ride smoothly and enjoy the ride.
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